We are living in a time of moral confusion and our
generation’s immorality is reflected in many of today’s styles.
Today’s fashion industry has little regards for modesty and its products
often projects look that are inappropriate for someone who wants to mirror
Christ.
The marvelous grace of God in our hearts compels us to reflect His holiness
in the part of our being that other people see. When a person becomes a Christian,
his experience changes every facet of his life- not just the inward person
but the outward person as well.
A BIBLICAL PRINCIPLE
The Bible instructs us to wear modest clothing that is, clothing with
godly appearance. Of course, our outward appearance cannot substitute
for inward holiness. Adam and Eve covered themselves with fig leaves after
they sinned, but God found their efforts inadequate. By making clothing of
animals skins for them, He confirmed that they indeed needed modest clothing,
but He also revealed that the holiness in appearance must be associated with
God’s provision for our sins. Only by the death of Jesus Christ, the
Lamb of God, do we obtain the righteousness of God that we seek to reflect
outwardly.
God instructed Israel’s high priest to wear holy garments, “for
he represented a holy God" (Exodus 28:2). God also ordered the
priests to wear clothing that covered their nakedness and forbad elevated
altars upon which priests would walk and thereby expose their nakedness (Exodus
20:26; 28:42).
Deuteronomy 22:5 enunciates the moral principle of a clear
distinction between male and female in outward appearance: one sex
must not wear styles of clothing associated with the other. It states, "The
woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man
put on a woman's garment: for all that do so [are] abomination unto the LORD
thy God."
Proverbs 7:10 speaks of a woman with “the
attire of an harlot.” Clearly, certain garments are associated
with sin and are not suitable for godly people to wear.
The principle that God wants His people to reflect His holiness applies to
the New Testament Church (Peter 1:15-16). We are called to be living
epistles read of all people, declaring to the world God’s holy
nature and His abiding presence (II Corinthians 3:3).
Our outward appearance is one way in which we are unspoken witness of the
transforming power of Christ.
I Timothy 2:9 admonishes “that women adorn
themselves in modest apparel with shamedfacedness and sobriety, not with broided
hair, gold, or pearls, or costly array." I Peter 3:3 gives
similar instructions.
I Corinthians 11: 16 teaches that a woman should have a long hair,
for it is her glory, and that a man should not have a long hair.
A person’s hair serves as an important visible symbol of his or her
submission to God’s plan of authority and as a distinguishing mark between
the sexes.
Revelation 16:15 uses clothing as a symbol to instruct the church to stay
close to God: “Blessed is he that watcheth, and keepeth
his garments, lest he walk naked, and they see his shame.”
Clearly, God puts emphasis on the outward appearance of a person.
To an extent, clothing reflects the condition of the heart, and it
sends a message to others about a person’s values.
A RESPONSE TO GOD'S GRACE
Advocating modesty of dress and outward dedication does not mean advocation
salvation by works.
Wearing godly dress is not a meritorious work to earn salvation rather it
is a response to the saving grace of God. The blood of Jesus is our only righteousness.
Our salvation comes from God, never from our good works. To think that we
could earn His marvelous grace by adhering to dress codes would be a terrible
mistake.
But to accept the grace of God and then be indifferent to Christ’s commandment
for the holy living would discredit His mercy. If the church preaches Christ
and His saving grace without teaching biblical guidelines to live by, it leaves
people open to confusion and failure. Deliberate and continous disobedience
to God Word will lead to the loss of saving faith.
Who can view the Cross without wanting to comform to Christ? Who would want
to continue his or her old sinful patterns of living when Jesus Christ died
to bring deliverance from those sins? When people comprehend His holiness,
they desire to become holy.
While it is true that the blood of Jesus cleanses from all sins, it is also
true that genuine love for Him restrains a person from presuming upon His
marvelous grace.
In our success-oriented society no one considers it odd if a company requires
its employees to comform to a dress code. Why then should a church that teaches
neatness and modesty for the purpose of honoring the holiness of God be considered
narrow, restrictive, or legalistic?
If we are to honor God in our hearts, it is consistent to honor Him with an
outward dedication. I John 2:15 intructs us, “Love not the
world”: surely then, we would be foolish to mirror
wordly values in our appearance.
THE PROTECTION OF MODESTY
Adhering to a modest godly standard of dress and conduct offers protection
from the surge of immorality that plagues our generation. Clothes and appearance
transmit nonverbal signals. Christians who verbalize godliness but at the
same time nonverbally declare sensuality and ungodliness destroy the effectiveness
of their gospel witness.
The primary purpose of many fashion designs is to exalt the ego, attract
undue attention to the flesh, stir desires, and ignite passion in others,
thereby appealing to the lust of flesh, the lust of eyes, and the pride of
life, which the Bible condemns (I John2:16). If we are honor to the
holiness of God, we must not dress in such styles and with such motives.
We must not naively ignore the complex causes of immorality and marital
infidelity, but neither should we ignore the influence that sensual dress
has on adultery and fornication. If a man looks with
lust upon a woman he commits adultery in his heart (Matthew
5:28). If a woman provokes a lustful look by her appearance is she not partly
responsible for the man’s sin? If people would dress in ways that do
not provoke lust, the moral fiber of our society would be strengthened.
The danger of overemphasizing any discipline in the Christian life is that
some people allow the discipline to become a legalistic code. Some people
who harbor unholy attitudes such as hatred, bitterness, envy, and strife falsely
think they are spiritual because they wear modest clothes.
Such distortions are hypocritical and wrong. But we cannot dismiss the need
for modesty in dress because some distort it. The biblical alternative to
legalism is not permissiveness or license but self discipline motivated by
grace, faith, love, the Word of God, and the Holy Spirit. (See John 14:15;
I Corinthians 9:14-27; II Timothy 2:24-27; John 2:3)
For the sake of our children, we must teach them to respect the holiness
of God in all areas of life. Allowing or encouraging preteens
and teenagers to dress in many of today’s fashion is invitation to social
and spiritual problems.
A dress code will not automatically remedy the decaying moral fiber among
youth, but it does remind them of God’s commandments. We must begin
somewhere to teach children and youth moral responsibilty, and standards of
modesty in dress offer us this opportunity.
When we honor God and His Word in our hearts and in our outward appearance,
He places an umbrella of protection over our families. While moral decay sweeps
modern society and many modern churches, we are able to remain relatively
untouched. The world may scoff at our modesty, but we dare not lay
down our cloak of protection and our obedience to the Word of God.